Mary Karr Quotes
Top 97 wise famous quotes and sayings by Mary Karr
Mary Karr Famous Quotes & Sayings
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The audiobooks I buy are never first-time reads - only rereadings of books I know well that I find intoxicating.
It's completely through prayer that I came to believe in God. I just sensed a presence south of my neck.
Nothing matters but the quality of the affection - in the end - that has carved the trace in the mind dove
On a piece of prose, you have to work at least six hours a day. I don't know how you can do that and teach and raise a kid and paint the house.
At some point the talk got heated, and Paolo called Mother a strumpet, for which Daddy was said to have stomped a serious mudhole in Paolo's ass.
The failures of other genres to provide an emotional connection with some of their characters and narratives gives memoir a toehold.
I always say that a poet loves the world, and the prose writer needs to create an alternative world.
The thing I have to do as a writer, and that God permits me to do, is that I have to be willing to fail.
The shreiking fight or the out-of-character insult endures forever, while the daily sweetness dissolves like sugar in water.
If your goal is to polish up a fake person you can sell to a public you perceive as dumb, the unexamined life will do perfectly well, thank you.
The memoirist's job is not to add explosive whammies on every page, but to help the average person come in.
Any time you try to collapse the distance between your delusions about the past and what really happened, there is suffering involved."
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I don't have a copy of my books, and the degree to which I never read them is profound. I never look.
Poetry privileges music and is aesthetically more challenging. Prose privileges information and is emotionally more challenging.
Metaphorically speaking, I always make room for any evidence of scurvy in my characters, any mitigating ailments.
When you do try to picture the boys who do ask you out, they're absolutely featureless, like old carvings eroded by centuries of rain and wind.
Slurping these spirits is soul preparation, a warped communion, myself serving as god, priest, and congregation.
The changes are coming fast and blind now, and in your skull sits an hourglass with a grain size hole through which numb seconds are sliding.
I tell people not to write too soon about their lives. Writing about yourself too young is loaded with psychological complexities.
Ten years, she's dead, and I still find myself some mornings reaching for the phone to call her. She could no more be gone than gravity or the moon.
I find a great deal of comfort and care in my faith and prayer. I'd sooner do without air than prayer.
As novelist Harry Crews once wrote, I'm the kind of person who - if he can't have too much of something - doesn't want any of it. In
(Later, I'l learn that's the structure of an elegy: lament, consolation; bad news, followed by good news.)
I do have a really good memory. I mean, like, I can remember all the phone numbers of everybody on the street I grew up on.
The first day of school, we walked till we reached a stretch of black graffiti on the sidewalk. Somebody named Ken blew dead bears, it said.
Prose cannot compete with the economy of poetry, the ability to have a full artistic experience in a short period of time.
What hurts so bad about youth isn't the actual butt whippings the world delivers. It's the stupid hopes playacting like certainties.
I think we fall in love and become adults and become citizens in a way by writing stories about ourselves.
I get about five memoirs per week in my mailbox, and few of them inspire anything but a desire to pick up the channel changer.
Success has affected my self-definition in that I have more money. Writers pooh-pooh that idea, but it's a huge deal.
Most of the people I write about I'm still in touch with, so I would be loath to make up stuff about them.
If you let yourself tell those smaller anecdotes or stories, the overarching capital-S Story will eventually rise into view.
Daddy said a Republican was somebody who couldn't enjoy eating unless he knew somebody else was hungry,
The head can travel a far piece while the body sits in one spot. It can traverse many decades, and many conversations can be had, even with the dead.
I lock all my scaredness down in my stomach until the fear hardens into something I hardly notice. I myself harden into a person that I hardly notice.
Having devoted the first half of my life to the dark, I feel obliged to rever any pinpoint of light now.
I've said it's hard. Here's how hard: everybody I know who wades deep enough into memory's waters drowns a little.
To my mind, a small bit of catshit equals a catshit sandwich, unless I know where the catshit is and can eat around it.
A hawk reeled overhead with a rodent squirming in its beak, close enough so you could see the bird's black shiny eyes.
Most morally ominous: from the second you choose one event over another, you're shaping the past's meaning.
Dumb hope is what it hurts most to write, occupying the foolish schemes we pursued for decades, the blind alleys, the cliffs we stepped off.
Age about 30, I stopped looking up my books in bookstores. Paying attention to the marketplace isn't a healthy thing for me.
The trick in that town was getting through a night at all without stalling in the sludge of your own thoughts.
They feed us the way the bread of communion does, with a nourishment that seems to form new flesh. According
The emotional stakes a memoirist bets with could not be higher, and it's physically enervating. I nap on a daily basis like a cross-country trucker.