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Why is it only later that things begin to make sense?
Some people, she decided, magically surface in these horrible moments knowing exactly what to do, which spaces to fill. 
All we can do is play our parts and keep each other company. 
If you want to lose sleep at night and eliminate all your free time or freedom, by all means open a small business, especially one that serves food. 
And it might be you never know the part you played, what it meant to someone to watch you make your way each day. 
I knew I didn't want to be alone anymore. 
Judgement is often no more than a confession of ignorance. 