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The audiobooks I buy are never first-time reads - only rereadings of books I know well that I find intoxicating.
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I'm not nearly smart enough or imaginative enough to tackle the novel form. Never happen.
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It's completely through prayer that I came to believe in God. I just sensed a presence south of my neck.
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Nothing matters but the quality of the affection - in the end - that has carved the trace in the mind dove
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How much smaller the large places are once we're grown up, when we have car keys and credit cards.
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On a piece of prose, you have to work at least six hours a day. I don't know how you can do that and teach and raise a kid and paint the house.
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At some point the talk got heated, and Paolo called Mother a strumpet, for which Daddy was said to have stomped a serious mudhole in Paolo's ass.
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No writer can impose his own standards onto any other, nor claim to speak for the whole genre.
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Born on third base, my daddy always said of the well off, and they think they hit a home run.
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The failures of other genres to provide an emotional connection with some of their characters and narratives gives memoir a toehold.
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I always say that a poet loves the world, and the prose writer needs to create an alternative world.
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I was 40 years old before I became an overnight success, and I'd been publishing for 20 years.
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The thing I have to do as a writer, and that God permits me to do, is that I have to be willing to fail.
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The shreiking fight or the out-of-character insult endures forever, while the daily sweetness dissolves like sugar in water.
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I don't think I look like the pope's favorite Catholic - at least not under close scrutiny.
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If your goal is to polish up a fake person you can sell to a public you perceive as dumb, the unexamined life will do perfectly well, thank you.
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Sentimentality is only emotion you haven't proven to the reader - emotion without vivid evidence.
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The memoirist's job is not to add explosive whammies on every page, but to help the average person come in.
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Any time you try to collapse the distance between your delusions about the past and what really happened, there is suffering involved."
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I don't have a copy of my books, and the degree to which I never read them is profound. I never look.
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Poetry privileges music and is aesthetically more challenging. Prose privileges information and is emotionally more challenging.
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Metaphorically speaking, I always make room for any evidence of scurvy in my characters, any mitigating ailments.
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When you do try to picture the boys who do ask you out, they're absolutely featureless, like old carvings eroded by centuries of rain and wind.
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Life is a field of corn. Literature is the shot glass it distills down into. Lorrie Moore
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Slurping these spirits is soul preparation, a warped communion, myself serving as god, priest, and congregation.
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In my godless household, poems were the closest we came to sacred speech
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A pool game mixes ritual with geometry.
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The changes are coming fast and blind now, and in your skull sits an hourglass with a grain size hole through which numb seconds are sliding.
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Memoir done right is an art, a made thing. It's not just raw reportage flung splat on the page.
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I tell people not to write too soon about their lives. Writing about yourself too young is loaded with psychological complexities.
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What would you write if you weren't afraid?
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Every poem probably has sixty drafts behind it.
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Ten years, she's dead, and I still find myself some mornings reaching for the phone to call her. She could no more be gone than gravity or the moon.
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I'm always terrified when I'm writing.
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I find a great deal of comfort and care in my faith and prayer. I'd sooner do without air than prayer.
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Standing in the shower, I feel something on the back of my leg that turns out to be my ass.
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As novelist Harry Crews once wrote, I'm the kind of person who - if he can't have too much of something - doesn't want any of it. In
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(Later, I'l learn that's the structure of an elegy: lament, consolation; bad news, followed by good news.)
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Was behind in every conceivable way. So the old attack dog started howling through my head as I'd
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I do have a really good memory. I mean, like, I can remember all the phone numbers of everybody on the street I grew up on.
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The first day of school, we walked till we reached a stretch of black graffiti on the sidewalk. Somebody named Ken blew dead bears, it said.
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Prose cannot compete with the economy of poetry, the ability to have a full artistic experience in a short period of time.
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What hurts so bad about youth isn't the actual butt whippings the world delivers. It's the stupid hopes playacting like certainties.
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I think we fall in love and become adults and become citizens in a way by writing stories about ourselves.
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I get about five memoirs per week in my mailbox, and few of them inspire anything but a desire to pick up the channel changer.
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Success has affected my self-definition in that I have more money. Writers pooh-pooh that idea, but it's a huge deal.
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Having a great dad probably permitted me to pal around with guys in a way that some women don't.
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Most of the people I write about I'm still in touch with, so I would be loath to make up stuff about them.
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If you let yourself tell those smaller anecdotes or stories, the overarching capital-S Story will eventually rise into view.
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Daddy said a Republican was somebody who couldn't enjoy eating unless he knew somebody else was hungry,
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The head can travel a far piece while the body sits in one spot. It can traverse many decades, and many conversations can be had, even with the dead.
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But it's a neurological fact that the scared self holds on while the reasoned one lets go.
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It's hard to be an articulate ghost.
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I lock all my scaredness down in my stomach until the fear hardens into something I hardly notice. I myself harden into a person that I hardly notice.
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Having devoted the first half of my life to the dark, I feel obliged to rever any pinpoint of light now.
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I've said it's hard. Here's how hard: everybody I know who wades deep enough into memory's waters drowns a little.
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Whether you're a memoirist or not, there's a psychic cost for lopping yourself off from the past:
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To my mind, a small bit of catshit equals a catshit sandwich, unless I know where the catshit is and can eat around it.
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A hawk reeled overhead with a rodent squirming in its beak, close enough so you could see the bird's black shiny eyes.
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Most morally ominous: from the second you choose one event over another, you're shaping the past's meaning.
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Our strange cynicism about truth as a possibility has permitted us to accept all manner of bullshit
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Dumb hope is what it hurts most to write, occupying the foolish schemes we pursued for decades, the blind alleys, the cliffs we stepped off.
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Age about 30, I stopped looking up my books in bookstores. Paying attention to the marketplace isn't a healthy thing for me.
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The editor self thinks only of saving the reader time and shaping a powerful emotional experience.
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The trick in that town was getting through a night at all without stalling in the sludge of your own thoughts.
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They feed us the way the bread of communion does, with a nourishment that seems to form new flesh. According
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The emotional stakes a memoirist bets with could not be higher, and it's physically enervating. I nap on a daily basis like a cross-country trucker.
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(Who but a drunk, I wonder looking back, could sit on the porch alone and get in an argument?)
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The American religion-so far as there is one anymore-seems to be doubt. Whoever believes the least wins, because he'll never be found wrong.
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In those days, I still enjoyed a child's desperate tendency to put sparkles on my whole tribe.
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As a memoirist, I strive for veracity.
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