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The real basic power of an individual isn't what he or she knows; it's the ability to think and learn and face new challenges.
— Nathaniel Branden
When your principles seem to be demanding suicide, clearly it's time to check your premises
— Nathaniel Branden
As you grow in self-esteem, your face, manner, way of talking and moving will tend naturally to project the pleasure you take in being alive.
— Nathaniel Branden
Regardless of what we think we're teaching, we teach what we are.
— Nathaniel Branden
What is required for many of us, paradoxical though it may sound, is the courage to tolerate happiness without self-sabotage.
— Nathaniel Branden
Integrity means congruence. Words and behavior match.
— Nathaniel Branden
I have to respect other's opinions even if I don't agree with them.
— Nathaniel Branden
If we do not believe in ourselves- neither in our efficacy nor in our goodness- the universe is a frightening place.
— Nathaniel Branden
Our motive is not to prove our self-worth, but to live up to our possibilities.
— Nathaniel Branden
Most of the time, I regard the judgment of people as a waste of time. I regard the judgment of behavior as imperative.
— Nathaniel Branden
Of all the judgments we pass in life, none is more important than the judgment we pass on ourselves.
— Nathaniel Branden
Do not marry the enemy of your excitement.
— Nathaniel Branden
We must become what we wish to teach.
— Nathaniel Branden
To honor the self is to be willing to think independently, to live by our own mind, and to have the courage of our own perceptions.
— Nathaniel Branden
It would be hard to name a more certain sign of poor self-esteem than the need to perceive some other group as inferior.
— Nathaniel Branden
The greater a child's terror, and the earlier it is experienced, the harder it becomes to develop a strong and healthy sense of self.
— Nathaniel Branden
Where we see self esteem, we see self acceptance. High self esteem individual tend to avoid falling into an adversarial relationship with themselves.
— Nathaniel Branden
The stability we cannot find in the world, we must create within our own persons.
— Nathaniel Branden
Anyone who really loves you wants you to be authentic. And anyone who doesn't want you to be authentic doesn't really love you.
— Nathaniel Branden
What is guilt? It is moral self-reproach-I did wrong when it was possible to have done otherwise.
— Nathaniel Branden
To attain "success" without attaining positive self-esteem is to be condemned to feeling like an imposter anxiously awaiting exposure.
— Nathaniel Branden
Perhaps the essence of our evolution as human beings is to keep answering, on deeper and deeper levels, the basic question: Who am I?
— Nathaniel Branden
A goal without an action plan is a daydream.
— Nathaniel Branden
The lies most devastating to our self-esteem are not so much the lies we tell as the lies we live.
— Nathaniel Branden
Feel deeply to think clearly.
— Nathaniel Branden
We tend to feel most comfortable, "most at home", with people whose self esteem level resembles our own.
— Nathaniel Branden
Anyone who engages in the practice of psychotherapy confronts every day the devastation wrought by the teachings of religion.
— Nathaniel Branden
Sometimes pain is easier to bear alone than happiness.
— Nathaniel Branden
Of all the judgements we pass, none is as important as the one we pass on ourselves.
— Nathaniel Branden
Most of us are capable of more than we believe.
— Nathaniel Branden
I am responsible for my own existence and happiness.
— Nathaniel Branden
The desire for self-esteem without integrity is like the desire for wealth without effort-a longing for the unearned.
— Nathaniel Branden
No one is coming to save you ...
— Nathaniel Branden
There is never any valid reason for not being in full mental focus.
— Barbara Branden
The first love affair you must consummate is the love affair with yourself. Only then are you ready for a romantic relationship.
— Nathaniel Branden
The world belongs to those who persevere.
— Nathaniel Branden
Productive achievement is a consequence and an expression of health and self-esteem, not its cause.
— Nathaniel Branden
If you choose not to live self-responsibly, you count on others to make up your default. No one abjures self-responsibility on a desert island.
— Nathaniel Branden
High self esteem people can surely be knocked down by an excess of troubles, but they are quickerto pick themselves up again.
— Nathaniel Branden
Respect starts with ourselves.
— Nathaniel Branden
In the inner courtroom of my mind, mine is the only judgment that counts.
— Nathaniel Branden
Fear and pain should be treated as signals not to close our eyes but to open them wider.
— Nathaniel Branden
A woman in love will do almost anything for a man, except give up the desire to improve him.
— Nathaniel Branden
One of the most important forms of heroism is the heroism of conciousness, the heroism of thought: the willingness to tolerate aloneness.
— Nathaniel Branden
One of the hardest expressions of self-assertiveness is challenging your limiting beliefs.
— Nathaniel Branden
Your life is important. Fight for it. Honour your highest potentials.
— Nathaniel Branden
Capitalism, by its nature, entails a constant process of motion, growth and progress.
— Nathaniel Branden
A productive purpose to which you give yourself fully and joyfully is one of the great adventures of life. It is a uniquely human source of happiness.
— Nathaniel Branden
An emotion is both a mental and a physical event.
— Nathaniel Branden
Take responsibility for finding it. It is only by grace of the second type
— Nathaniel Branden
Integrity is congruence between what you know, what you profess, and what you do.
— Nathaniel Branden
If you face life without confidence in your own powers, you succumb too easily to setbacks and adversity; you lack the will to persevere.
— Nathaniel Branden
You have a right to your feelings. Your feelings are there to tell you something, but they are not infallible guides to behavior.
— Nathaniel Branden
Ideas do matter and do have consequences.
— Nathaniel Branden
For "I" to become "we" and yet remain "I," is one of the great challenges of marriage.
— Nathaniel Branden
A mind that trusts itself is light on its feet.
— Nathaniel Branden
If you are terrified of making mistakes, you will be reluctant to acknowledge them when you do make them-and therefore you will not correct them.
— Nathaniel Branden
To trust one's mind and to know that one is worthy of happiness is the essence of self-esteem.
— Nathaniel Branden
Fully to surrender to love can be terrifying. But it is the price life asks in exchange for the possibility of ecstasy.
— Nathaniel Branden
Self-acceptance is my refusal to be in an adversarial relationship to myself.
— Nathaniel Branden
When people are not accepting toward themselves they are often obsessed with acceptance by others. — Nathaniel Branden
It is painful to face the self we know we have never had the integrity to honor and assert.
— Nathaniel Branden
The ultimate test of our integrity is not how we deal with those whom we agree but how we deal with those who we do not agree.
— Nathaniel Branden
In a world in which the total of human knowledge is doubling about every ten years, our security can rest only on our ability to learn.
— Nathaniel Branden
Self-esteem is the reputation we acquire with ourselves.
— Nathaniel Branden
Do you want to be like Goethe or any of those so-called geniuses who marry a nothing hausfrau?
— Nathaniel Branden
Self-esteem is not a luxury; it is a profound spiritual need.
— Nathaniel Branden
Be careful what you say to your children. They may agree with you.
— Nathaniel Branden
Never marry a person who is not a friend of your excitement.
— Nathaniel Branden
When self-esteem is low, we are often manipulated by fear ... We live more to avoid pain than to experience joy.
— Nathaniel Branden
A depression is a large-scale decline in production and trade ... there is nothing in the nature of a free-market economy to cause such an event.
— Nathaniel Branden
Doing more of what doesn't work doesn't work.
— Nathaniel Branden
Freedom is still the most radical idea of all.
— Nathaniel Branden
Self-esteem is a powerful force within each of us ... Self-esteem is the experience that we are appropriate to life and to the requirements of life.
— Nathaniel Branden
The United States was the first country in the history of the world to be consciously created out of an idea - and the idea was liberty.
— Nathaniel Branden
Live with integrity, respect the rights of other people, and follow your own bliss.
— Nathaniel Branden
Self-discipline is the ability to organize your behavior over time in the service of specific goals.
— Nathaniel Branden
The concept of romantic love as a widely accepted cultural value and as the ideal basis of marriage was a product of the nineteenth century.
— Nathaniel Branden
The thing I want you to understand," Ayn was saying, "is that no matter how hard the battle, it can be won. You can break through.
— Nathaniel Branden
It is very difficult to accept in others emotions you cannot accept in yourself.
— Nathaniel Branden
When we bury our feelings, we also bury ourselves. It means we exist in a state of alienation. We rarely know it, but we are lonely for ourselves.
— Nathaniel Branden
A bully hides his fears with fake bravado. That is the opposite of self-assertiveness.
— Nathaniel Branden
One of the characteristics of love relationships that flower is a relatively high degree of mutual self-disclosure
— Nathaniel Branden
The first step toward change is awareness. The second step is acceptance.
— Nathaniel Branden
Either you will make your life work, or your life will not work.
— Nathaniel Branden
I cannot organize my behaviour optimally if my goal is merely "to do my best." The assignment is too vague.
— Nathaniel Branden
To persevere with the will to understand in the face of obstacles is the heroism of consciousness.
— Nathaniel Branden
You can no more have too much self-esteem than you can have too much health.
— Nathaniel Branden
So far as we can ascertain, in primitive cultures the idea of romantic love did not exist at all.
— Nathaniel Branden
Your life is important. Honor it. Fight for your highest possibilities.
— Nathaniel Branden
